why life is a gamble?
- because you never really know what is gonna happen next, because the silver lining may appear anytime in you sky, because chances and risk can never be eliminated 100%
why play it yourself?
- because its your life; your life is safest at your own hands others are most likely to be busy with their own life, either by choice or by circumstances
why take just a little help?
- a little help in this case is subjective. take as much help as you need
: when the giver is someone, just try not to get to indebted, try to repay in some way or the other in a way he/she needs and ideally more than what you got. ( a giver gains more than the taker)